A few mornings ago, my son queued up Handel’s Messiah on his iPod and began playing it through
the stereo. It was a day of cancelled school, so I sat, coffee in hand, with all
four kids - some of us working, some of us reading the paper, all of us periodically
humming or singing the parts we loved best - for the full two hours and 47
minutes of the recording. Hard to believe, since two years ago I couldn’t get
them to suffer through a single track.
What
had changed? How had they grown to take pleasure in something they once found boring
and pointless?
The
answer is one that is common to all humans, according to Paul
Bloom, a Yale professor with a PhD in Cognitive Psychology. Dr. Bloom’s
area of specialty is in pleasure research – how we as humans develop the
ability to derive pleasure from people, experiences and things. He has
discovered through his research that pleasure does not simply occur, it develops.
And how it develops is a point worth noting:
"People ask me, 'How do you get more pleasure
out of life?' And my answer is extremely pedantic: Study more….the key to
enjoying wine isn’t just to guzzle a lot of expensive wine, it’s to learn about
wine.”1
knowledge yields pleasure
Bloom
has found that pleasure results from gaining knowledge about the object of our
pleasure, not, as we might assume, from merely experiencing it over and over. Specifically,
our pleasure increases in something when we learn its history, origin and
deeper nature.2 Christians, in particular, should take note of this
connection. We are called to be a people who delight
ourselves in the Lord, who can say with conviction that “at
your right hand are pleasures forevermore”. Many of us identify readily
with the call to Christian
hedonism. Yet, we fight daily to live as those whose greatest pleasure is
found in God. If Bloom is right, finding greater pleasure in God will not result
from pursuing more experiences of him, but from knowing him better. It will
result from making a study of the Godhead.
Think
about the relationship, possession or interest you derive the most pleasure
from. How did you develop that delight? Whether you are passionate about modern
art, your car, conservation, your spouse, nutrition, education or baseball, my
guess is that you became that way by learning about the object of your passion.
And that your pleasure in it grew as your knowledge grew.
My
kids love Handel’s Messiah because two years ago on a long car drive we told
them its history. We printed out all of the lyrics (scriptures) in random order
and offered a prize if they could match each set of lyrics to the correct track.
They did not initially respond with enthusiasm, and the complaining continued
throughout the listening exercise. But in the end, making a study of the
Messiah enabled them to derive pleasure from it. As they learned about it, they
began to experience it in a fuller and richer way – a way that they would not
have if we had simply asked them to listen to it over and over again. Because they
made a study of it, it gives them pleasure.
The same is true of our enjoyment of God. When we go through
spiritual dry periods, we often try to increase our pleasure in God by seeking repeated
experiences of him. But if Paul Bloom is right, and I believe he is, our
delight in the Lord will increase not through chasing experiences, but through making
a study of him – his history, origin and deeper nature - a practice that would
actually allow us to experience him in a fuller and richer way. If we want to
feel deeply about God, we must learn to think deeply about God.
to know him is to
love him
What Bloom’s research has uncovered bears witness to the
truth that the heart cannot love what the mind does not know. The more we know God,
the more we will love him. Our pleasure in him will increase as our knowledge
does. We must make earnest study of him as he has revealed himself in his Word.
Consider your pattern of spiritual disciplines. How much of
it is given to study? The more time you devote to discovering the revealed knowledge
and will of God, the greater your pleasure will be in him. The Westminster Catechism
teaches us that the chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy him forever. But don’t pursue enjoyment. Pursue the knowledge
of God himself, and watch as your pleasure in him multiplies.
“May grace and peace
be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.” – 2 Peter
1:2
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1
What
Do We Value Most? NPR Radio TED Radio Hour, May 25, 2012, 14:00 mark
Thank you Jen!
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ReplyDeleteFor the last few years, God has continually brought me back to Psalm 37:4-6 (esp. vs 4). My "life verse," if you will. I find it to be so true - when I am delighting in Him, he puts right desires into my heart. But I have often wondered "how?" How, specifically, do I grow this delight in God? Today I came across your blog and believe He divinely led me here. Thank you, thank you!
ReplyDeleteThis is why I come back to this blog over and over again .... when everyone else is talking about family expections and "practical" things about the season (not that there's anything inherently wrong with this) ... you bring it home. So thankful for the voice God's given you.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this - shout it from the rooftops! How can we not love Him more, the more we know Him ... He is indeed 'altogether lovely', and it excites my soul to know that when I see Him as He is, and *know* Him as He is, my love will increase more than I can imagine right now... Right now, much I love my Saviour, my love is so dulled by sin. But then ... 'face to face' ...
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking my thoughts to glory.
don't recall how I landed on your blog (specifically, that is; ultimately, no doubt how), but so grateful for the blessing of pondering and applying much wisdom from your eloquent posts.
ReplyDeleteJen: Thank you for writing a blog that isn't filled with fuzzy cliches. You've made me think and I've instantly fallen in love with that offering. This post really impacted me. I actually feel guilty with the time I spend studying the word—like I am indulging in a bad habit when there's other duties to attend. I need to stop that. I need to full-out feed my passion and let the Lord fill in the gaps that remain in my day. Thanks again for your excellence and obedience. Keep writing. <3
ReplyDeleteHi. I work in a small church in Brisbane, Australia, and am seeking permission to reprint this article ("How knowledge feeds our delight in God") with full attribution to the original author and source. Every month we print a thought-provoking article to stimulate our church's thinking, by connecting people with good Christian content online. Articles like this can help our church develop a culture of reading and talking about issues relating to the bible, religion and life.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your interest in the piece! Would you email your request to jenwilkin.blog@gmail.com? I'll be happy to respond to it there. Jen
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